Men’s Work

Being a people-pleaser might not appear to be a bad thing, on the surface. After all, what’s wrong with wanting to help others? But, real people-pleasing goes far beyond lending a helping hand. True people-pleasers often go out of their way for others at the expense of their own well-being.

Even though we’re well into the 21st century, there are some societal expectations and old fashioned ideas that remain strong in our country. One of those ideas is that men should be providers for their families.

Comparing your role as a man to your father’s depends a great deal on your age. If your dad was an adult in the 1950s, chances are he worked to support your family while your mom tended the home front and waited for you and your siblings after school (70 percent [...]